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Videos On Television

Posted August 24th, 2012 at 03:29 AM by Lois
These are three YouTube videos done by a former Pentecostal in Australia. He is not a Christian and there were a couple things I didn't like, but overall he did a nice job with these.

He also goes over some of the points made in the book, "The Subtle Power Of Spiritual Abuse."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5efYlPLKMg




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2whznvArJ18




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pROvFTmthP4

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When A Pastor Morally Fails

Posted August 9th, 2012 at 10:24 PM by Lois
A pastor morally falls. So does his son. People are devastated, hurt, confused, angry, sad and their faith is shaken. A church is thrown into turmoil. This is happening now in Junction City, Kansas.

The pastor, Edwin Young, suddenly and without warning, turned in his resignation last week (August 2nd). The church is already set to vote on a possible new pastor this week, possibly Don Boyer, who Young felt should succeed him.

Young took over the church after the death of L.E. Westberg, one of the men instrumental in pushing through the affirmation resolution in 1992 (went into effect in 1993). At that time, Faith Tabernacle was a part of the United Pentecostal Church. Both men held license with the UPC, but Young ended up leaving the organization and went independent apostolic at some point after becoming the pastor. From things I heard, it got stricter under Young.

What causes a pastor to fail morally? Are there signs we can watch for, that something seriously is wrong in the life of a minister? It hits the news more and more and involves various church groups. There's another big story going on now in Indiana that has been reported by the media.

I will share one thing I have learned through the years and red lights go on whenever I hear it happens. When a minister is harsh in sermons and outside the pulpit, BEWARE. There is an enormous difference between speaking in love against sin, or what one perceives to be sin, and another when people are torn into, made examples of, and treated not in love by a minister. There is also a problem when no sin is involved, but a minister gets irritated at someone and rips into them in front of all.

From numerous reports, that is exactly what this minister did for years and years. If similar things happened in a healthy church, the pastor's wrong behavior would have been addressed when it happened or soon after. But at this church, it wasn't. It was tolerated, allowed, and even thought to be proper conduct by many. Many 'amened' him and cheered him on when he did these things. It isn't proper behavior. It is far, far from how a minister is to conduct themselves.

A huge problem is that in unhealthy churches, this is often a gradual process. And when it gets to this point, the people have been conditioned through previous teachings and incidents, to accept what is happening. The pastor is "the man of God." You don't "touch God's anointed." The pastor "watches for your soul and has to give account of you." The pastor knows more than you and what is best. If the pastor is wrong, all we can do is "pray about it and let God correct him." So when people have this type of mindset, it opens the door for much abuse and other wrong things.

Learn how a pastor is to be. Go to your Bibles and search this out. A main characteristic of a minister is they...
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T.D. Jakes Embraces Trinity, Leaves Oneness Beliefs

Posted January 29th, 2012 at 06:30 PM by Lois
http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=37054

The above link will take you to an article that tells how T.D. Jakes has embraced the teaching of the Trinity. For years there has been speculation and talk about him believing in Oneness.

However, he still wishes to fellowship with both camps, something that he may well find is difficult with Oneness Pentecostals who believe it is a matter of salvation. Just as Trinitarians had issues with him when he believed Oneness.
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Newspaper Article on Church Rules

Posted January 23rd, 2012 at 01:16 PM by Lois
This link will take you to the article: http://www.journalgazette.net/articl...FEAT/301249999

It in part states:

"In addition to wearing skirts, she does not wear makeup or cut her hair – all rules she follows because they are put forth in the Bible.

“We believe that we can’t really improve on what the Lord made us to look like,” says Hughes, who is married to the pastor at Auburn United Pentecostal Church."

Sometimes newspapers really mess up as in the beginning they say the no cutting of a woman's hair is a Pentecostal rule. No, it is not. It is with some Oneness Pentecostals and a few others, but it is certainly not a mainstream Pentecostal belief. {Note: See correction below}
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Marjoe Movie- Watch For Free

Posted January 22nd, 2012 at 02:00 PM by Lois
http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...29120699935619



Here is a link where you can watch the movie, Marjoe, in its entirety for free on Google. Some may find it difficult to watch due to the subject matter and scenes from Pentecostal services.

Marjoe was raised as a child to be an evangelist, but was never a Christian. His parents, who had an AOG background, had him memorizing sermons & movements to go with them from the age of 4, I believe. He exposes himself as a fraud in this documentary and also tells how some evangelists & ministers scam people.
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