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Pastors- Secure Your Continual Leadership... Just What We Don't Need

Posted December 5th, 2011 at 08:54 AM by Lois
I had to pass this along after running into it online the other evening. I shook my head in disbelief when I saw it. There is a ministry now to help pastors "secure your continual leadership role within the local church with Apostolic By-Laws." You read it right. It takes away all voting rights of members and puts the pastor in complete control. It was ummm.... enlightening skimming the site.

This so-called Apostle's church affiliation, is some prophetic type of Pentecostalism and he held license with the AOG. The wife is a so-called Prophetess. He will help churches write or re-write their by-laws to make the church a 'theocracy' and give the pastor full power. And for a cost of just under $1300! I believe for an additional cost, you can have this self-proclaimed Apostle and his other ministry be the church or pastor's 'covering.' Just what unhealthy churches need- a way to ensure a pastor holds full power and control!

I also found basically the same site, without the apostle and prophetess titles at churchby-laws.com. I don't think by the use of 'apostolic,' that they mean what organizations such as the UPC mean.


The link where this by-law kit is found is: http://www.apostolicbylaws.com/home
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Let Me Off The Roller Coaster!

Posted December 4th, 2011 at 09:02 AM by Lois
Roller coasters- a lot of people love taking rides on all kinds of roller coasters. There's the smaller and more mild ones for the younger ones or those starting out. Then there are the huge ones with all types of twists and going upside down, that test how well you can hold down your food, lol.

But there is another roller coaster ride that isn't fun but is frustrating and never ending: It is the performance trap roller coaster found in unhealthy churches. When you board this ride, they don't let you off and it takes away your joy.

When people attempt to earn their righteousness or somehow earn favor or acceptance with God through their actions, they will always struggle. That is because it simply cannot be done. We either accept by faith the righteousness God gives us or we attempt to earn it ourselves. And since we are imperfect people and we often mess up and fall short, we will never feel complete and lasting peace attempting to follow God in this manner. Worse yet, all our efforts are in vain as we cannot make ourselves righteous.

When you fail, you feel badly and feel maybe God will reject you or think less of you. Then maybe you have a good day or service and feel better. But all too soon the down side comes again as you don't live up to the performance expected. It's a roller coaster ride of ups and downs. And many often wonder if they will even make it to heaven.

This is not what a Christian life is supposed to be like. Our salvation is not based upon our performance, but upon the completed work of Jesus on Calvary. He paid the full price for all our sins and mess ups. There is nothing we can do to achieve what He already accomplished. And there is nothing you can do to cause God to love you or love you more. He already loves you. He expressed that love when Jesus paid the price you owed for your sins. Yes, even before you were born, He saw ahead and loved you.

There is hope outside of the performance trap roller coaster ride. There is life- more abundant life in Christ!
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Oneness Pentecostal Snake Handlers

Posted December 3rd, 2011 at 06:22 AM by Lois
Remember hearing about snake handling in some churches? Recently there were some old pictures of it for sale on eBay and there was a mention in the ad about Oneness Pentecostal.

I didn't know about it until recently, but there is even a Oneness Pentecostal snake handling book out. To my knowledge, it has only been Pentecostal type churches who have practiced this.


Here is the link to the book, which isn't well edited: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/AS...iritualab0c-20
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God gave me Biff

Posted December 2nd, 2011 at 06:40 PM by Nancy
To fully appreciate the love of God, one needs a reference point. Often this may be one's father who in his demonstration of unconditional love, lays a foundation of experience that would allow a belief in an all loving God. Unfortunately, many of us did not have this kind of earthly father. I always knew my dad loved me but it was a complicated, flawed love that would bear little relationship to the kind of love the Bible promises we can expect from God. For much of my life, I saw God as harsh, critical, demanding and yes also loving.

Then Biff came into my life. It took years of marriage to realize how much of a gift God had given me when he gave me Biff. No Biff is not perfect; he's a bit of a cowboy, likes being the 'class clown' and can irritate me beyond comprehension BUT Biff has shown me a glimpse of the kind of love God must have for us. Biff's love is unconditional. He has loved me through my skinny minny period to my tubby tilly period and back again. He loves me when I make ridiculous mistakes. He loves me when I spend too much money, make bad choices, cry, scream, and even when I am angry and unfair with him. Biff would rather spend time with me than do anything else in life. I truly can't understand this.

But because of Biff, I can believe that God loves me even when I am not perfect and that he loves me more than I can ever comprehend.
I hope God has a special reward for people like Biff. May you have a Biff or Biffettein your life!
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The Way Of The Transgressor Is Hard!

Posted December 2nd, 2011 at 08:55 AM by Lois
You have left and now something bad has happened. Perhaps you had an accident, lost your job, have a financial problem or an affliction in your body. The words that you heard dozens of times echo in your mind, "The way of the transgressor is hard..."

Your former pastor would warn, sometimes with stories of things that allegedly happened, of what awaits the person who leaves. Of course they are considered backslid as they walked away from 'truth.' Oh, the tales of the auto accidents, even deaths, may ring in your ears. Perhaps they were right and you are backslid, maybe without hope.

It is interesting how, at times like these, you forget all the bad things that happened while you were there. In a post some days back, I shared: "I recall all kinds of bad things happening to people who were in the church. A house burned down, there were all kinds of vehicle and job problems, car accidents, financial problems, marriage problems and divorces, and people getting diseases with some dying. It would be an extensive list of woes if everything could be mentioned. Being a member of the church and being involved did not keep them from the things of life that can happen to anyone."

When bad things happened while you were in church, you would hear the pastor proclaim, "Many are the afflictions of the righteous...." or maybe, "The trying of your faith worketh patience...." The bad would happen because you were following God. Perhaps the devil himself was out to get you. The devil always seemed to be after the church and the people there. He seemed to get a lot of credit he didn't deserve. But that's another story.

If you had remained at your former unhealthy church and the same bad thing happened as is happening now, you wouldn't be thinking you were a transgressor. So why are you now? Have you walked away from God or have you simply walked away from a particular church? Have you walked away from God's principles or have you walked away from man-made doctrines?

Think about it. You had plenty of bad things happen while you attended, so why should it be any different because you left a church building? The rain falls on everyone alike. This is life and in life there will be things happen that are bad just because you are alive.
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